How to Tell if a Guy is Interested

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how to tell if a guy is interested

How to Tell if a Guy is Interested – Let’s say you have met a nice guy that you are interested in and you want to know if he is also interested in you. A great way to find out without revealing your feelings about him is to watch his body. His body language I mean.

By doing so, you can tell almost immediately if he is into you. This is a powerful tool, especially if he sends you mixed signals – his body doesn’t lie! Here are some body language signs that will answer the question “How to Tell if a Guy is Interested?”.

#1 He is leaning towards you

This is actually one of the best ways for knowing if a guy is interested during a date or a conversation. If he leans towards you it’s a sign of closeness and affection by him. He will usually do that if he finds something that you’ve said, very interesting or if he feels attracted to you.  

#2 He looks you in the eyes

9 Body Language Signs That Will Tell you if He is Interested
he looks you in the eyes

Prolonged eye contact is a crucial key for knowing if a man is interested. When a man is looking in your eyes while you are talking to him it’s a sign of attraction. If a guy is really interested, that eye contact can easily become staring.  

#3 He smiles a lot

If he is smiling while he is talking to you or when he sees you, it’s a good sign of attraction. If he is smiling while looking at you (or even better- while looking in your eyes) he is definitely into you.

#4 Subtle touching

9 Body Language Signs That Will Tell you if He is Interested
subtle touching

Subtle touching is a great way for knowing if a man is interested. If he touches you gently on your shoulder or pushing you gently while telling you a joke or touches your hair in the first couple of dates, it’s a sign of attraction and affection. This is a way for a man to show affection while not being too aggressive.   

#5 He dresses nicely

If you are noticing that a guy is starting to dress nicely when he is around you or fixing his hair, for example, it means that he is trying to look attractive and appealing to you.

#6 Solid Posture

A man who is interested will often show a solid posture. He will push his chest out, he will stand tall, with shoulders up and tummy in. this is often made at the subconscious level and it is being done in order to show a manly figure.

9 Body Language Signs That Will Tell you if He is Interested
solid posture

#7 Spreading his Legs

This is also happening in his subconscious level when he sits in front of you or next to you. It’s a part of the manly posture he is trying to present. It is also an indication of openness.

#8 Mirroring behavior

Mirroring behavior is when a person copies or mimics another person’s behavior. When a man is interested in a woman he will subconsciously mimic her body language. If you are on a date, for example, try to touch your hair or lean to one side or play with something on the table. If he also starts doing the same thing, he is interested.

#9 Manly gestures

Manly gestures like handing you his coat on a cold day, opening the door for you, protective behavior, are all good signs of attraction.

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How to Tell if a Guy is Interested – The Bottom Line

Body language is a great way of knowing if a man is attracted to you. Lots of the signs that were mentioned above are being done at the subconscious level and often without him being aware of that.

This is the reason that watching his body language can tell you the truth about his intentions. If you are seeing two or three of these signs, he is definitely interested. If he displays all of the above, feel yourself a lucky girl – he is got a crush on you!