Over the years the common thought has always been that men are keen on a woman’s looks more than anything else. Well, this could be true to some extent for some men but the majority of men look for more than just that. so the answer to the question “What Men Look For in a Woman” is much deeper.
A man is most likely to be intrigued by a woman’s thought process especially when it comes to intelligent conversations, how confident she is, her levels of emotional stability, her independence or whether she is fun to be around. So why are these factors so crucial? Read more to find out.
There is something quite attractive about a woman who holds herself in high regard. It shows that she is not only confident but also values every single aspect of who she is and would not let anyone mess around with her.
Men find this quite irresistible because a woman who respects herself shows that she knows what she wants and has principles in her life. men respect that.
a woman who respects herself will also challenge her man to be better (while not trying to change him or over push him). This is vital for the sustainability of any healthy relationship as it keeps both parties involved happy and secure.
Fun and Playfulness
when you are fun to be with you are making everyone around you comfortable. that signals men that you are optimistic and positive. those two are very important characters that will make men extremely attracted to you.
Today’s man is quite different and sees beyond a woman’s looks when he wants to start something serious. Actually, for the longest time, it was believed that intelligent women really intimidated men but that is not the case anymore.
Men are really interested in a woman who can hold their own in deep conversations and that are capable of making wise choices that have a great impact on their lives. Men are constantly in search of that woman who they can depend on to give them valid and insightful advice on some of their key life decisions. Because relationships are all about supporting each other.
You Make Him Feel Like a Hero
You will find that there are many women, and you may be one of them, who have a great career and date all the time but cannot maintain a relationship. And they have no idea why. It is exactly because of the fact that they have convinced themselves that they don’t need a man and that is what they project.
Unfortunately, if a man doesn’t feel that a woman needs him he will think there is nothing he can do for her that she can’t do on her own. He won’t be able to play the knight in shining armor for his woman and there is nothing that will get a man to run away faster than the feeling that he isn’t needed.
The Bottom Line
Obviously, these are not ALL the things men are looking for in a woman, and those factors change to some extent from man to man, but they are definitely the key factors most men share.
Thus if you have been wondering why men lose interest in you at the very first, you need to evaluate yourself against these factors.
Try as much as possible to forge a life of your own that is full of fun. Read books to expand your intellect. this will give you knowledge and self-confidence. [You should also read “Five Secrets All Men WANT You to Know“].